Studies have shown that women tend have more sexual attraction for men they had ONS/Short term relationships than they do with their husbands and a lot of people are opting to get married in their late 20's and early 30's.
This was a response from a male gager on another topic:
"Many women have a dream wedding that they always wanted as a little girl even though they don't want to admit it. Usually when they are young, many girls have no string attached sex, short term relationship, and some have long term relationship with desirable men. They eventually expect to get married, and are willing to pick guys who they would never have looked at in their 20's, if they won't able to snag a mate they truly found desirable to settle down with.
With so many young men opting out to get married. Their safety net (a backup guy) is gone, and they are worries of finding a "fall guy". So they employ shaming tactic of these guys are bitter in order to shame them into marrying them."
This was a female response:
"Our future husbands aren't our "backup guys." We just have different standards for a husband than we do for a casual date/hookup. Wouldn't you want a different girl to be the mother of your children than the girl you took home one drunk Saturday night?
The real problem is guys like you seeing marriage as a consolation prize of sorts. If a girl wants to spend the rest of her life with you, and build a home and a family, isn't that a good thing? Instead of feeling resentful that girls didn't choose you for a casual hookup."
Do you think guys who women want to get married in their late 20's and early 30's are really the guy they wanted to be with at the end of the day or are they settling?
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Women who are sloots in their youth are damaged goods. I can't answer for them because I'm not one of them,
My husband is the only man I plan to be with. When I get married of course it's because I want to spend the rest of my life with him, building a family, home and life together. That's why people need to stop passing their coochies and crotches around like free samples. Those people are not husband or wife material.2