I been married for almost 4 years now and I recently been thinking about cheating on him , I don't know why this thought comes to me but it does. I think about it whenever I'm alone or even when we are together. Why am I feeling this way?
Most Helpful Guy
The simple answer is because you are human. EVERYONE thinks about this, even people in very happy relationships. It's completely natural. Marriage is just an agreement, not a magical spell that blinds us to others. My wife is beautiful and sweet as can be but I still think about cheating. I don't, but I think about it.0
Most Helpful Girl
Lack of excitement, perhaps? What if you asked him what he thought about trying swinging or a threesome or something? You could have your cake and eat it too if he was interested...0