Why am I thinking about this?

I been married for almost 4 years now and I recently been thinking about cheating on him , I don't know why this thought comes to me but it does. I think about it whenever I'm alone or even when we are together. Why am I feeling this way?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • The simple answer is because you are human. EVERYONE thinks about this, even people in very happy relationships. It's completely natural. Marriage is just an agreement, not a magical spell that blinds us to others. My wife is beautiful and sweet as can be but I still think about cheating. I don't, but I think about it.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Lack of excitement, perhaps? What if you asked him what he thought about trying swinging or a threesome or something? You could have your cake and eat it too if he was interested...

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What Guys Said 7

  • Because you've fallen out of love and aren't satisfied

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  • You might be needing something to spice your relatiomship. Or you are just bored. I say take some time to youraelf and really think if u wanna be with him. Then act on those feelings of wanting him. Then think about why u feel that way. Is it phyaical? Emotional? Do u argue? Is he not completing some need you have? I have an am still going through something similar. As long as you accept that the feelings exist but they dont control you, then you are going in the proper direction

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  • You've been watching too many sleazy movies and tv shows. Entertainment likes to make affairs and cheating sexy and exotic, but in reality it destroys everybody involved and gives you a lifelong regret.

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  • You need to say this exact word to him.. And let him know that he needs to win you again.. Or this might crash

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  • These hoes ain't loyal

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  • because you dont love him anymore and you dont care about him and about his feelings

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  • Because Satan is whispering in your ear, don't give into temptation or your soul will be his for eternity

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