For whatever reason, do you agree with waiting until marriage to have sex? I'm a Christian so, I'm kinda supposed to wait but some people say that it's bad to wait because you don't know if you're husband/wife would be good in bed. I've definitely thought about this and even though I don't really want to wait I'm not going to pick and choose what aspects of Christianity I'm going to follow. So, where do you stand on this topic?
Most Helpful Guy
Well statisticly it has been shown to be better for the marriage, higher rates of happiness and lower divorce rates (1% chance of divorce with one partner, 16% with two). So the only real issue is your and your future husbands view on sex ie if they take the approach that sex is a sin/bad then that will cause issues, if however both of you embrace your sexuality but just dedicate it to each other you should have a very good healthy relationship both in and outside the bedroom. Statisticly speaking.1
Most Helpful Girl
I'm also Christian and I think you should wait. It allows you to have a very strong foundation in your relationship and truly get to know the other person.1