We've been officially together for about 6 months. The past couple months he keeps bringing up marriage.
First he started by telling me that he dreams about getting married to me, and what a good wife I will be to him someday. I told him I'm not ready to talk about marriage yet. And he said he understood. That was a couple months ago, then a few weeks later we were chatting about places that we enjoy traveling and he said "Well, we can have a beach wedding or a disney wedding" Again I said I'm not ready to talk about that. A couple days later we were having lunch together and he said "What a great mom I think you're going to be, and a great wife to me"
Last night he told me "I know you said your not ready to get married and I'm fine with that. But if you feel you really want to get married to me, let me know"
He keeps bringing up marriage and it feels so awkward to talk about this and I don't picture myself getting married anytime soon and I don't know what to do.
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Wow. You really need to break up with him. He sounds EXTREMELY desperate. Don't get me wrong, you sound like you have a few issues of your own, but clearly he is way too need and desperate and not boyfriend or husband material for anyone.
He dated you for two years before you were exclusive? That's pathetic. It takes 2, maybe 3 months tops for a woman to start really falling in love with a man and to want to be exclusive with him. If a woman doesn't want to be exclusive with you by then she's just not that interested and you need to start dating other people. I guess you didn't say that he wasn't dating other people before you were exclusive, but from the way you describe him it sounds like it wasn't. I know because I've been that guy too.
I don't blame him for wanted to get married, in his mind you guys have been dating for around ~2.5 years. That's a long time to date. But at the same time he needs to recognize that you aren't and probably never will want to marry him. If you did, it would have already happened. He should have stop dating you a long time ago because you obviously aren't interested in him.
You both need to move on and date other people.0