But still you want to go through all the dream marriage like any single lady goes through ( big party at a lavish place wearing white, lots of guests and your dress is long). What do you think of it? I just want to know your point of view and perspective on it on the issue. Im putting just an example. Yesterday a coworker got married, this lady already was living like a married woman to say it in a way with the guy she married yesterday like 9 years ago (until yesterday they decided to officially get married) and they both already had a 8 yr old son, and they alreayd had been living together as a family since the son was born 8 years ago. So the lady wore a white long white dress and had her wedding like any other normal single lady in her 20`s or 30´s with no kids involved first.
I heard that there are ladies in her same position that they are more kind of discret and they married just on the legal way not through church, and also they wear other colors that are not white, like beige, cantaloupe champagne, cream color and everything is more discret and reserved.
Im not here to judge as I know each person is differnt but what do you think about it, what´s your personal opinion on it.
Also I know this is a woman issue but guys are welcome to give opinions to see their own point of view as well on it.
Most Helpful Guy
Its your wedding. Do whatever you want with it. Marry in white, marry with cat costumes, have a Star Wars wedding - its ultimatively up to you.1
Most Helpful Girl
Are you asking this because you want to do the same? Or just asking what other people think of your coworker? Something I learnt in life is not to judge people, because you never know their story, you don't know where they come from, the only ones we can judge is ourselves, even if they lived together for many years and they want to make a big wedding with the white dress and all, let them be, it's their lives, they should be allowed to live the way they want, especially when it comes to love matters, for me marriage is the ultimate demonstration of love, so for me your coworker and her husband were just showing the whole world how much they love each other and that they aren't ashamed of showing it, why should it be discreet? Who has the right to tell them how they live before was wrong? Live and let others live, and if you wanna do the same or not, go for it whatever the case is1