In my generation the growing consensus seems to be that people of my generation don't want to get married and have kids and I feel like I'm the only guy around who does see that as part of his future. I think it's fine that my colleagues don't see parenting as part of their future but that's not me, I'm a family man, I'm 20 years old and I already know this much about myself. Ideally I'd like to be married with kids by my early to mid 30's, but every year more and more women are saying they don't want kids and it makes me feel insecure. When I google "I'm a millenial who actually wants to get married and have kids" all it leads me to is articles about how more and more millenials are saying no to that lifestyle. Like wtf? Where are the articles for people like me? Where are the support groups for people with my concern? I can't be the only one who thinks this.
Most Helpful Girl
Drop the special snowflake entitlement since most of the people on here are also millennials and there are tons of questions about having children and getting married.
You're only 20. The girls you know right now are probably busy with their education. They don't need to think about marriage right now.5
Most Helpful Guy
Just take care of yourself making sure you have a good career and when the right woman come along you will know its time after giving yourself time getting to know her. Women who's not ready for that you can't make them ready for marriage because you'll end up regretting it later.0