So I am black, marrying a jewish man. He treats me like gold and is the best man I have ever met. He is such a gentleman, so cultured, intelligent, successful, and has great morals. My dad always said "any blk who marries white is a fool, because you can't trust white ppl". That a white man would never accept my "blk" child, and so on. He is so racist. How the neck am I going to have a wedding. I haven't let him meet my family. I swear I had to block my dad from posting racist crap on my Facebook wall. Stuff about flag burning and other nonsense. I really thought I was going to have issues with my fiances family but they are so sweet to me. Wtf am I going to do. I got a good man, how do I prevent my family from destroying it? I love them but sometimes the stuff they say is just as bad as the racist white rednecks. Help!!!
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Omg u might be my opposite twin! I'm a white girl dating a black man and like yours my dad is also very racist. Me and my boyfriend r engaged currently and actually expecting a baby... I just found out I was pregnant a week ago. And my dad makes me terrified to tell him for fear if how he'd react, even though my boyfriend is an amazing guy to me and nothing like I was brought up to believe a black man acted. He's perfect and ik are baby will be just as amazing as his or her father and I wish my dad would be able to see that. But sadly I don't think he will and sometimes that's the thing. You might have to pick one or the other0