this is , a hypothetical scenario where your both financially secure. and won't be having any monetary issues in the future either.
girls, you can say what you'd rather like to be/do.
- workVote A
- housewifeVote B
- other, specifyVote C
Most Helpful Girl
hi, i always worked but when we decided to have children i always knew i wanted to bring them up myself, not some random strangers in childcare. when they reached nursery age around two and a half i worked when i could, i appreciate its not that easy for other people but I've known people who have put their babies into childcare at six weeks old, ffs, and gone back to work. to me that is horrific, a baby of that age is still so bonded with its mother and needing the connection, this was a person who actually was very wealthy it was her personal choice. now im a single mum with two children and i still work, however, the decline in the household is very apparent but i can't do it all... xx2
Most Helpful Guy
I definitely prefer a wife who work, I see only positive for her aspects on this.
The main ones are that she can feel realized on what she does at work (reaching success) for what she studied and not only at home.
Then she has the financial independence from her husband which is a great level of freedom and equality at home.
Moreover there is much stability if one loses its job for any reason.
Finally, if she goes to work there are more ideas, more subjects to spread more things to talk about in the evenings on weekends, the couple will be more open minded than if she remains all the day long within the house's walls waiting fr her husband. Both will enjoy more the time spent together at home.1