Ladies who are married or want to someday, would you still want to wed if in your vows you still had to say "to love and to obey?"
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, and I did say love, honor and obey. Ultimately one or the other has to have the final say (be the tie-breaker). Which doesn't mean to us at least that he is a dictatorial "boss" who only gets his way and I have to suck on to up and follow. We both have an equal say, old fashioned, you bet but it keeps things working well for us! FYI: We've actually never had a "tie breaker" we both think pretty much alike almost all the time.0