I'm married and I had found out a friend of mine had feelings for me for years. I had feelings for him too and admitted that to him. He tried to make a move on me but I refused since I'm married. I let my husband know what happened and he accused me of emotionally cheating and calls me names and accuses me saying he thinks I did things with him. I didn't think it that way but I accepted it. The constant accusing makes me want to go ahead and physically cheat anyway since he already considers me cheating and not tell him what happened this time. I just feel like if I should feel guilty about it I should do something to feel guilty for.
Most Helpful Guy
And this right here is why I will never get married6
Most Helpful Girl
No do not cheat. I would tell your husband exactly how you feel. You tell him the constant accusing is turning you off and either he drops the accusations or you're done. You told him the truth but do not cheat. If you want to leave your husband then I would tell him! There's no point in dragging this argument out if you want to leave.1