When and how to know if its the right time?

Ok so here is the deal. I'm dating a guy and we are planning to get married when he finishes school. I really really want to have sex with him but I've grown up with the belief that you should wait till marriage. In a way I want to save it till marriage but then in some ways I want it now. He wants it now to. What would you recommend?


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  • One thing to consider is that if you are a virgin, you can never get your virginity back, so it is a special thing for you and for whomever the person you are with first.

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  • IF you have to ask this question, your not ready (mentally) . Bottomline.

    Go with your heart.

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  • I'd say take that journey before marriage. It also will be a great way to find out if you two are compatible for each other sexually. Just my opinion, I didn't wait till marriage and my life is great:)

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