I want to keep my wedding small and fun and there are people that i don't want at my wedding. There is this girl who gets jealous. I used to party and drink with her and deal with her drama. But like we had gone through a lot together its true. But i feel like she is still the girl i met in my clubbing years. She's just this dumb whore i can't get rid off. It's annoying because we have too many mutual friends. She had this look on her face when she heard that i am getting married. She was like what? (Kinda rolled her eyes) and she took a deep breath and faked a smile and said she's happy for me. Not the usual expression when someone really is happy for you because it would be obvious. Anyway and then she was like oh i'm gonna throw you the biggest bachelorette party! Like she already thought i was going to invite her. I really don't want to because she radiates bad energy and talks shit behind me whenever a guy compliments me (yes she's that type of "friend") what do i do?
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She's obviously NOT a friend. She's a user who tried to bank off of your popularity to make herself look better. Taking yourself off the market means two things for her: She's lost her wingman, and you've won the game by landing husband material. She jealous and she can't use you the way she used to.
It's YOU'RE special day, and you should not have to stress over it. Pick only the guests you want to invite, then just focus on looking calm and gorgeous, even though you'll feel a screaming toddler covered in strained peas on the inside LOL
Getting married is not what everyone makes it out to be, and yet it's so much more! It's the start of a brand new chapter in life, so in all honestly, this is the best time to weed the garden. Cut out those bad vibe Kilgnons from Planet Past.1
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