Let's say that you have moved in with the man you married (or your domestic partner, if you aren't officially married to him) ...
... And he feels that it's his vocation as the man in the marriage/partnership to fully provide for his woman, and he's capable and happy to fully provide you.
How would you feel about that situation? Would you be happy with him taking care of you so you can focus on other things? And how would you feel about such a guy?
Most Helpful Girl
Well my husband is that guy, he barely says "no" to me. I get almost everything I want.
But there's a thing I never abuse the fact that he can give me what I want, I just get what I need when I take his credit card but I am not that type of woman that want's to sped $500 on some bullshit. I am very simple I am not about the labels or whatever, I prefer going on trips and enjoying his company at all times (doing couple massages or spa day, outdoor activities).
I have my job and I spoil him a lot because I truly appreciate what he does for me :)
I think is great when the woman can control herself and doesn't spend the money in an irrational way.
Is bad if she is a gold digger, she will be going deep in your pockets,0
Most Helpful Guy
Women have nothing but contempt for beta providers. Sure, she'll let him wife her up... after she's hit the Wall, after 15 years of giving her youth and beauty to thugs for free she'll make Mr Beta Provider pay new Ferrari price for a beat-to-shit Pinto. But she'll keep a lookout for a thug, and if one shows an interest she'll bang him in a heartbeat.
Never, ever be a provider. If you don't have women throwing themselves at you, learn some Game, PUA, whatever it takes to get laid, and then pump & dump your way through life. Fail to heed this advice and you WILL end up regretting it, either in divorce court or when you decide to stick it out in a shitty, miserable marriage.0