hi so this is my first post and first of all, i'm new to this website by the way i have a question, is it really okay to propose a guy when you're a female? i know most of the men are proposing to a girl. but the women who propose to a guy is really rare... so is it okay?
Most Helpful Guy
I think it is ok. I also think it is ok in terms of making it a "I want to marry you"... no pressure, just letting you know where I'm at.
It kinda sets the tone and you can talk, as you get to know each other try to move in that direction. I think that helps either shorten it or make it stick for LTR.1
Most Helpful Girl
There was this commercial, I think it was Dove or Secret deodorant for women, and the girl proposed to her boyfriend at a restaurant in a fortune cookie. And I watched that with my boyfriend and said, "oh my gosh I would never do that." And my boyfriend was like "Why not?" Which surprised me because I thought guys, would think it was emasculating to be proposed to. I personally wouldn't do it, because I feel like people would just assume he didn't want to marry me so I pushed along the situation and forced him to say yes.0