I told him I didn’t really like his one female friend and he then said “I guess she won’t get an invite to ur wedding" ( we talked about being married already) and I said "of course not!" He understood, and then I said "I’d only want like 50 people at our wedding". I then asked him "what he thought about 50 people" and he said “haven’t thought about it much”
That pissed me off. When we first talked about marriage he brought it up first. Now he seems like he doesn’t care when i ask him about the details. Is is it normal for a guy to not think much about wedding stuff even if he plans and wants to marry you?
Also we arnt engaged yet, but he said he wants to be engaged to me soon (so he says) this still bugs me tho.
Most Helpful Guy
It's completely normal most men realize that it's the woman's day and that it should be how she wants it. Most men are just happy to get the certificate and be done with it he is doing all of this for you so he would rather you pick and get it right than he pick and fuck it up.0
Most Helpful Girl
Honey, men dont think about the marriage hoopla trust me. I mean think about it, most of the things about weddings that seem exciting like 'The dress' , 'The cake' , 'The hairdo' , etc etc are kinda women centric!
I think as long as a guy gives his opinions about the wedding or whatever you ask him about, it's completely fine! Besides, why are you pissed about something that isn't even happening currently. There's still time! Don't sweat the small stuff. You'll have a beautiful wedding!!
Answer mine too please?