to me 😁 i m simlpy afraid 😩
*afraid that i m not going to be a good husband or father👴
*afraid that she will either cheat or file for a divorce which doesn't seem weird this days💏
*afraid to marry a girl that might be not the right girl👰
*afraid to find myself stuck with someone for life😤
*afraid to trust someone that much and be let down and dissapointed😢
*afraid to have kids they are a responsability that cost money lots of money
*afraid to have hard times financial or health related and she will just leave me 😭😭
to sum it up i m just afraid to trust a woman like that
Most Helpful Girl
Personally I can't wait to get married it's going to be amazing!10
Most Helpful Guy
Not only are kids expensive, they will automatically be subjected to all forms of harm, pain and suffering over the entire course of their lifetime. They will have to face all kinds of hardships, challenges, frustrations, disappointments, rejections, heartaches and heartbreaks, and as well realize that one day they're gonna die too, just like everybody else. And then they might even ask you these questions, "Daddy, were you ever aware of all of these problems before bringing me into existence to this world? And if you had been aware, then why did you bring me into existence at all, because I had never asked to come here nor did I ever gave you the permission to bring me into existence to this world? Was it really because you thought the good in this world would outweigh the bad in this world and that it really is for the best from YOUR own perspective and decisions? Or was it because you only did it because you were so afraid that no one will be there to ever support you or take care of you when you become old and elderly one day after retiring from a job or career?"
They might not be happy with this. Unexpected tragedies can also happen randomly to them and ANYBODY without ANY warning at all! Worst case scenario if they had felt overwhelmed by all the heartaches, disappointments, frustrations they might even take their own life! These are the risks of bringing someone into existence though many don't think about it that deeply, because they are afraid to think and look at the negative possibilities of life and existence.
It's difficult, but take your pick. I realize it's all emptiness but I made my choice and I chose to cope and live with it for as long as I possibly could, and I hope you would chose to live and endure the difficulties and frustrations that come with life like I do, rather than ever to completely give up on living.1