I'm sacrificing my life for my family so why can't I live with other men after being forced into an arranged marriage? This guy I'll be marrying next year is an engineer and he's rich. Money ain't worth shit if you aren't happy. I told my parents I don't like him and they still want me to marry him and they emotionally blackmail me all the time. This engineer guy is so creepy cz he loves me too much and he behaves like a psychopath, he says he'll die with out me and he treats me like shit most of the time. He 29 and I'm 19. I'm really worried about this age gap right here and also he's a bit feminine. I've always wanted to fall in love and find a nice guy, marry him and live a peaceful life but now it feels like my dreams are being shattered. I've got no options, my only choice is to marry him. ( English is my third language so please don't be mad at me)
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I don't know what to say... I can tell you what would I do, but that doesn't mean you would do it right? I would get the fuck out of my place asap and never (or maybe in a few years in the future) come back... and I'm not overreacting... I rather stay poor and without my parents, than spend the rest of my life living a life I never wanted to live... think of it like this: your parents one day will die, I mean, eventually right? and then you'll stay with your husband for the rest of those years to come... sounds scary af, even more if you feel like he's a bit psycho.
Trust me, you won't be the first woman to leave your house and try to live independently, it won't be easy I can assure you that, and you might be broke for a few months or even years... but you'll be free, and sooner or later, will settle down and live your life as you always wanted...1