Girls and guys please help me how do you know you are a guy first choice? What does he do?
Most Helpful Guy
There is no way to know if you are his "first" choice. All you can (sort of) know is that you are his current choice, but not his first choice. If you want to know 100% certain that you are his first and only person, you can never know that.
You just have to take a relationship for what it is here and now. Is the relationship OK with you as-is, or isn't it? Beyond that the only thing you can do is accept whatever he has to offer, in whatever way he has of showing it. You also have to accept that how another persons shows it may not be the same as how you would show it. It's part of getting to know them.1
Most Helpful Girl
there's never a first choice when I comes to men lol1