Basically- my husbands trashy little sis (14yr old, and sorry but she's a complete beech. To everyone. But especially me. I worked so hard to get on her good side, took her shopping bought stuff etc.. but nope.) wanted to crash at our place after she's done trick or treating. I watched her tell him she's gonna crash here (tell, not ASK) with me right there. To my surprise, he immediately said yes without even asking me? Or just consultinng with me? Of course i wouldn't say no, but im your partner.. u can't just make decisions like that without me.
wouldn't be surprised if she threw a party. Since i won't even be home til later (he shoulda asked me this too ). Plus he knows what she's like..
then he gave his key to her! We argued over this situation.
but dont i have the right to be mad here?
Most Helpful Guy
That's a tough one because I know he's your husband, but that's family. I can see why he would choose not to make her feel unwelcome by having a discussion first.
Maybe he should have discussed it with you (maybe definitely?) but I think you need to be a little more understanding here. I would hate for a member of my family to feel unwanted by my significant other. Actually, I know exactly what that's like. My ex-wife used to hate my family and my parents would feel so unwelcome around her. Once she became an ex-wife, I knew that I was never going down that path again. Just consider that a little before you decide to make your husband choose.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Yes, you are. He needs to tell his sister that you are also in charge of the house.0