Most Helpful Guy
get a new wife.2
get a new wife.
Are you leading a healthy lifestyle yourself? There's no better way of motivating someone than to live it out. Be the first to start eating healthier, working out, Going for walks or run together. Just don't mention a thing to her as it will bring her self esteem down. I'm sure she's very aware of the weight she's gained so no need to point out such sensitive things. Just offer her to join you for a run or ask if she'd like to try the things you make. But don't make it too obvious. She'll then get suspicious! Just show her through the way you live. That's my best advice
Hmm do you live together? a sneaky way if you don't want to be upfront and risk hurting her feelings is somehow inspiring her, if you go to the gym, try to make her go with you, make it a routine with her and you could be like " hey lets get healthier food, i think we're starting to let OURSELVES go" make sure to include yourself so she doesn't feel singled out. Maybe if you act self conscious about YOUR weight like "man I'm starting to gain weight, i feel gross" that would make her think about herself and maybe she'll be like " oh man me too" and it'll get her to eat healthier and lose weight.
I think lots of people have this problem and socially, you're in a tough spot. It's highly frowned upon to talk to a woman about weight, but in reality, she's no longer the woman you married. However, I will say this: my ex-wife was very focused on her looks and was really proud of the fact that my co-workers would gush about her at Christmas parties. Marrying her was also the worst decision of my life. I'm not saying it's related but there is a part of me that wants to tell you that if you like every other part of this woman... Yeah, I don't know, maybe I shouldn't be responding!
Go invite her to exercise/play sports. Offer to buy groceries and cook so you control what the two of you are eating. Encourage her to go clothes shopping with one of her girlfriends who doesn't dress like a slob. If she refuses to exercise you can call her out on that: tell her you like her to be more active.
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.