If a husband comes to know that his wife was not a virgin n had multiple partners n sex before marraige and lied about it?

But he did'nt say or insulted her for it but now he feels he will never be able to cope with her n fears about STD's n all n also feels sad about himself n some unpleasant images keeps on popping in his head, then how should the wife deal with it and bring him back to senses provided he was a virgin and he did'nt react badly to her after knowing the truth about her?


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What Girls Said 1

  • This stuff should have been discussed before marriage.
    He is married to her now, and if he had asked her about this before marriage and she hid it from him, or lied to him (about diseases), then he can seek divorce. However, try and see if things can be worked out.
    If she is willing, she can get tested, and then you can make your decisions based on that but don't be rude or don't make her feel unworthy.

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What Guys Said 2

  • It isn't as much what she can do but what he will do. The future lies entirely in his hands from then on. Whether he chooses to to stay with her and ignore/ cope with her past or leave her because of it, is entirely up to him.

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  • She lied. Show her the door.

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    • 24d

      The problem women always lie on their boyfriends and most of the women globally are like that.

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      @abayeabe

      Yes, I know. And that's part of why a man needs to be prepared to walk away at any time.

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