It's the old cliché : I've liked my best guy friend for over a year now. He dated a girl for 10 months of that year but they recently broke up. We had an emotional relationship (with lots of email & texting) while he was dating her but I decided it's not fair toward the girl & stopped all communication. The day after they broke up he contacted me again. We get along like a house on fire but he keeps canceling on me when I organize group things like movies or braise with my friends. His friends & family love me & I always have a good time with them. We run together and hang out after races. I've always been there for him when he needed to talk & he has told me that I'm special to him in that way.
He knows I have feelings for him & sometimes it feels as though he has feelings for me, but just the fact that he never comes over for a visit or asks me how I am when I'm going through a stressful time or cancels on me half an hour before a social gathering makes me feel as though I'm being taken for the fool. It really bugs me because I'm attractive, funny, sporty, a nice person & basically everything that would make us compatible but I'm just not good enough. His 2 previous girlfriends were super skinny and super bitchy and willing to sleep with him (something I'm against - I believe in no sex before marriage - something he told me he also believed in when we had just met). I don't know if our age difference has an effect - he's 25 and I'm 30.
I just want someone to think I'm worth the effort (I can be a little difficult sometimes - especially when he cancels an appointment). I wish I could just move away from here and never see him or speak to him but I'll miss his face too much :( Aaaarrrrgggghhh!
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I reckon you should talk to him about this and this time don't let him "Cancel on you". If he does just let it go and move on because you deserve better.2