This guy that broke my heart like three days ago, just called me and put this song on so I would hear it. Long story short I thought I loved him but how could I love someone that wants to hurt me. We talked like everyday, for four months straight, since we really wouldn't see each other for the longest,like two times a month. He had proposed and everything, my family didn't know about him since they thought I wasn't seeing him anymore he's 20.
This is how he hurt me, So we were talking on to phone, and he brings up this topic on sex. (I haven't done anything with him.)
He starts with " I can't wait till were in bed together". I didn't have a problem with it since I can't lie I have pictured it.
Until he started saying stupid things like next time I see you I'm do this and this to you and all this crazy shit I've never heard of, anyways I told him I wasn't gonna have sex with him until I was ready and started saying all these excuses.
So I guess he didn't like it, and he started saying how there was many other girls that would love to do it with him, and how he's had all these other girls before that were finer than me, and well I got mad. I thought he loved me and thought of only me, It hurt. I mean I'm not gonna lower myself and have sex with him, just cause he wants you know?
But anyway he put this song on the phone LINDA MUJER, LIL ROB. IT goes something like this.
Every time I c u, I just wanna meet you say hello, how you doin, what are you doin tonight, we should hook up tonight.And goes on and on.
It's really sweet song and all but I'm just so confused what should I make out of this song and him, I'm never been through any of this and can't really rely on my family and friends for answers, since everyone thinks I broke it off with him a long time ago. I kind of had too because of my brothers anger of him being older and more experienced than me.
Oh and I told him not to ever call again. Did I do right thing, I feel things for him I've never felt for any other guy.
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It doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not. If it's something you don't like or want to do, he shouldn't push you. It's like people who used to do drugs, smoke, or eat mean. If they don't want to do that anymore, it doesn't mean you should push them and be disrespectful to them. Sounds like you still have a lot of feelings for him. You have the choice to not listen to them and just delete them.0