I have been with a man now for four years and for the second time in 3 months he has had another women in his house answering his phone telling me she's engaged to him etc. The first time I confronted him he told me it was all BS. So here it is 3 months later and the same women is in his house talking the same BS. I feel so disrespected at all this. It's one thing to openly admit to the fact that you have other relationships with people but to have one of the people in your house claiming to be your main squeeze when you told the other person it isn't true is wrong. I feel if this the one he wants to be with just end it with me and keep going. How can I break it off with him. This is all too much. I feel that after four years I should be the one in the house chillin' and answering phones.
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If he is not treating you like the queen you are then forget his lame ass he doesn't deserve you and there are guys out in the world that would love to be with you. Don't be afraid if this man is hurting you do not let him continue putting you through heartache and stress tell him that you never want to see him again there is no point in fighting with that trick he's with it's not worth it and he's not worth it. If you can break up with him in person if he gives you the baby I'll be better I need you BS tell him to just cork it tell him exactly where to shove that crap because you're not tryna hear it. You can do better don't let him make you think otherwise find someone who will love you for you. If you are too nervous to break up with him in person then hell do it over the phone heck show him the exact respect he's showed you. And most of all Let it go you can find someone better go out and do something good for yourself hell you deserve it after what he put you through. Just enjoy your life without him. Good luck hun0