My fiance asks me to stay in the bedroom for a while so he can have alone time with his mother when we visit his parents. He says its both he and his mother that want this. I feel its strange rude and disrespectful. I want to know if you all feel that is a normal dynamic between mother and son. If you feel it is not normal how do ask them why they feel like doing this and let them know that this isn't alright with me.
Mother and son alone time?
What Guys Said 2
WTF? That is not normal. It is rude and disrespectful.
A few questions:
Is he an only child?
Does the mother like you? If not, why?
Do his parents live in a different city/state, or far away from you and your fiancee?
Do you two live together?
Are you actually engaged with a ring on your finger, a date on the calendar and you're actively planning the wedding, or is it just something you're telling people because you plan on getting married, or something in between?
Do his parents know you're engaged?
Where the heck is his father when they're having their alone time?
Have you visited more than once, if so, does it happen each time?
How old is he?
If you answer these questions, I can give you my thoughts. I have some ideas, but need the extra input.
Feel free to send me a private message with the answers or any questions since the comment section has limited space. lol
Good luck! :)0
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Ever see that movie "Monster-In-Law?" This seems like a similar situation. Maybe your fiance and his mother have a strong relationship. I know it will be an inconvience to you, but he will appreciate you for not intefering.0
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