I just want to see what people think.
Most Helpful Girl
It seems like it could be a good idea when you're young, but you get older and realize that it's pretty much never actually a good idea.
You change too much when you're young, it's a fact of life; almost nothing is permanent. You don't know yourself, you don't know what you want or where you're going. Even when you think you know, it turns out that you were totally wrong. Life is funny like that.
There's no need to be engaged at a young age, it puts too much pressure on a relationship. You should never feel so obligated at such a young age - it might not FEEL like an obligation, but just the idea of "forever" puts a whole different spin on things, and when you're young, things are crazy enough as it is.0