I just want to know if it is better for a person to be experienced before he or she marries. Also, do persons need to find out if their partner is sexually compatible with them before they marry that person.
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Honestly I don't think it matters. Personally when I lost my virginity, I wasnt scared or nervous at all. As a matter of fact, the girl I had sex with told me I was really good at it. I guess I'm pretty good at guessing what should come next, or I can tell if someone is satisfied ;) but either way. I haven't had sex since because when my wife finds out I've had sex with X amount of people it kind of loses the intimacy factor. On the other hand, you pretty much can find whatever your looking for. If you wait long enough you will find the person that is glad you waited, or you can find the person who doesn't care at all. Who you are and who you become in life is defined by the choices you make, and since there is no going back once you've made those choices, choose wisely. I would wait, I am a christian, and in this world consumed by darkness the popular thing to do is conform. When you decide to stand out and let people know it with confidence, you will be an example to those around you ( and that doesn't matter if your religious or not, people ultimately respect those who do the right thing. and even if they say they don't it is just because if they can lower you to their level it justifies that you can fall to their level too. kind of like the message in the new batman movie)!1