I recently started dating one of my best friends. things are going so well, but last night when we were talking, he said he never wants to get married because his parents have a terrible relationship and his last (and only other) relationship was really bad too. I understand where he's coming from, because how can you have a positive outlook on marriage when the only one you've seen was cr@p...
but I really like him and I know he feels the same about me. I'm not saying I'm going to marry him, but I don't know if I want to be in a relationship where its never going to be a possibility.
so I guess my question is, do you think he could change his mind if he found the right girl? (we're both juniors in college by the way so its not like I'm a dumb 13 year old... no offense.)
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Well if you really like him you should stick with him as people can change their minds about things. Just set some goals about how long you're willing to wait - if you want to get married NOW then he's not the guy for you, but if you are thinking of say 5 years down the road who knows.
I used to say that I never wanted to get married or have kids because of the way my parents were but now I'm thinking different.0