OK so we've only been married 1/2 a year and we've only been together 1 year. I really wanted to dump him after 2 weeks but he's very persistent. How do I go about dumping him?
since we are married now, I want to make it less messy and say it's "only so we're separate but still married". He doesn't want to every break up and refuse to listen to me when I say to give me space and let me move away and for minimal contact. I some times think about cold turkey leaving him but we've already invested too much time together.
Why do I want to separate?
-we have different morals. He didn't go to church, he doesn't save sex for marriage. we basically got married so sex would feel OK for me since we are married (he's the only one I've ever had sex with)
-I feel it disgusting that he lived with a girl when he was 17 and she was 14 for 3 years. And they had a lot of sex and he told me every tiny detail about how much sex, what positions/foreplay, where they had sex (in the car etc) and how his first time went and how her down there taste etc. Kind of gross
-He does pot and I don't
-He doesn't know my religion or my God
-He likes to have too much sex, and I don't
-He talks about his ex too much, which is gross
-I hate his past (sexual past, and how much pot he does, which is a lot of pot by the way)
so... other than that he breaks my stuff and he broke my 1600 dollar laptop ! and yeah, my camera and other stuff.
So should I break up with him? and how should I go about doing it?
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So there's this guy that you've never really liked to the point where you've been wanting to dump him ever since you were with him for two weeks. Then you married him even though you don't like him and are nothing like him, so you could have sex with him, AND want to dump him. Wow, I'm sure your god will be pleased with your interpretation of the whole 'sanctity of marriage' thing.. Do you intend to marry every guy you want to f***?
And now you want to break up with him, but not get a divorce. Because that would be messy. Well that's great! It would be good for you just to see what a horrible mess you've got yourself in. Why have you let it come this far?!3