Just curious as to why we bother getting married with divorce rates this high? I know people on their 3rd marriage due to infidelity. Why bother to marry the "girl of your dreams/guy" if were just going to bitch moan and cheat on each other with the "HOT CHIC/guy"? I just don't get why monogamy is dead...When did humans become so greedy? Why are looks such a big deal?
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Love has limits and I think a lot people over look what they feel that they can put up with, and just accept that this is the best it is going to get. Then they settle.
Cheaters cheat because there feel that they are missing something.
Back in the day it was all about family and now its beyond that. Now that women are making as much money as us (if not more), and have become more independent, I think men tend to struggle with being the ones that should be "bringing home the bacon". Remember, before women used to stay home and become stay home moms. Yes, we have many still but it's no longer a common thing. So as our busy lives start to take over us, the ones that can not balance work and home go searching for that appreciation/validation they crave. Because home isn't what it used to be.1