I have been dating this really great guy for almost three months. He has two kids that live with his ex wife, and has just recently gotten divorced for the second time. The second marriage lasted for 4 months. He invited me to stay at his place every night for the first two months of our relationship, and now that I have officially moved in with him (his invitation), he keeps making sure I know he doesn't want to ever get married again. He says that he isn't looking to "strike out". I don't want to make a huge mistake getting married right away either as I have been divorced for 6 months myself. His kids absolutely LOVE me, and my kids love him too! I don't know what to do because I really love him and can see myself spending the rest of my life with him, but not at this point in either of our lives. I don't know how to make him understand that. I want to be with him in any way that I can get him. Please help me! I know he has feelings for me, and he could probably even love me, tho he hasn't actually SAID it yet. How do I get him to realize I am in no huge hurry to get married and that I just want to BE with him? And that I only want him? He has also made it abundantly clear that he has been with probably hundreds of girls like it's not a big deal. Why does he do that? Please help!
Why does my boyfriend keep saying he doesn't want to get married again?
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Ans: Probably alone the line "burnt once, eternally afraid of fire".
Good question, though. Ask him, "You keep repeating you don't ever want to marry again, why?" Make him think. Make him face himself. He needs to heal himself of whatever unhealed wounds he has inside him.0
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