I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years. He is a great guy, however he isn't the richest of the richest which is fine with me. I've never looked at what a person's had to determine how I treat/feel about them but a couple weeks ago he proposed. I said yes ... neither of us want to get married until next year around this time. We both agree that we should wait a while longer.
Recently I have been thinking.
He is a senior in Univeristy, as am I ... He doesn't have a car because he's never really needed one since we live downtown and everything is near us. Now that we have become serious I am starting to question my decision of saying "yes" for a few reasons.
1.Doesnt have a steady job [working part time]
2.Doesnt have supportive parents.
And that is it ... I think the financial part is what scares me the most. I really do love him so much, but do I have a reason to feel unstable?
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Its only natural to have some doubts. That's the way life works. We want things to be perfect so we find reasons as to why it CANT be perfect. If you two are still in university than I would think you should have waited at least two years after finishing to get engaged...After you have settled down with your careers.0