Last Monday, there was a misunderstanding. I wanted to tell my mother that in case there were problems in taking me to the subway, it would have been better to take me to a different station from the usual. However, my mother thought that I wanted her to take me on foot to the station.
Next, I went with my father to tell him my mother's plan, only to let him know, not because I didn't like the plan. Minutes later, my mother came enraged with me, telling me that I make my dad mad with her because "I told him that I didn't want her to take me on foot to the station". I got angry with her, of course, but only for her reaction and because she was still bothering me with the issue when it was understood that everything was a misunderstanding.
Yesterday, we had another argument, and she took again the issue of Monday when everything was supposed to be solved. Saying me that if I have problems with her attitude I should tell her instead of my dad. I told her that it's impossible because of her bad temperament and she takes everything personal.
Finally, she told me that whatever I talk, it should be with both of them, so that I won't ruin their marriage.
Then, when both of them were together, I told them what happened, my father remarked that I should forget the issue of Monday because we conclude it was a misunderstanding and it past. He mentioned also that I am not destroying their relation because of saying what I want to express, and that I can express it with whoever and whenever I want.
What do you think? why is my mother overreacting and alterating me if everything is fine as my father said?
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