I'm 19 and I'm not married. I know it seems young but I feel like both my cousins, around my age, are on their way to engagement, and it sucks that I'm not. Since I was little, all I've dreamed of was having a family and a husband, but it still hasn't happened. I don't understand why.my longest relationship was only 8 months (I ended it, though, for good reason). Am I too young to be worried about this? I'm not even sure if I want marriage now, I just want it before I'm 30. What do I do?
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Honey marriage isn't all it's cracked up to be. Yeah the big ring and the big dress and partying in Vegas all week is super awesome but you have to go home and be a wife. It is dealing with the same man day after day month after month. You get the picture. You are never free from, "Did you feed the dog?" or, "Have you ironed my shirt yet?" or, "Did you call about that bill yet?" It is a big turn off! It really sucks the passion out of a relationship when you converse about who is going to clean the left overs out of the fridge. It's always me. Yes you get to have steady sex with someone you aren't afraid of what they could give you but even that gets dull. You will try things to spice it up but when he never adds anything new in the bedroom you will wish you hadn't been so stupid. Trust me. I think unless you are required by your religion I would avoid it all together. If you want a big fancy party with a big dress and a big ring then throw one for yourself, buy them for yourself. You never know who you will meet and you don't want to be tied into a commitment when you meet them. Just make sure the men in your life know your thoughts on marriage and extended commitment before you start anything romantic with them. Over rated.0