I've recently started seeing this guy, who I've fallen for quite hard. He has ranted on for hours on how he doesn't believe in marriage and doesn't ever wish to get married. He said, and I quote, "if two couples are both together for 30 years, and one of them is married, and the other isn't, who has the stronger relationship?" He's convinced that the couple without the ring is stronger.
He's also stated that once he's done finding out new things about a woman, he immediately stops seeing her and it's "on to the next one."
Do all men feel this way? I'm assuming I can't change his mind, but the things that he has said make me feel as if he has no feelings for me at all, and that I must constantly keep him entertained if I want to keep him around...or else it's "on to the next one" for him.
Is it possible he does have feelings for me? Because the way he's talking is making me feel as if he wants to rid himself of me already.
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he doesn't wanna be with you. guys that are players and don't wanna settle will use this excuse to try to shut you up. its just bullsh*t. that way if he ever moves on he will be able to say "i said I don't want a commitment". if a commitment is what you want, this guy won't give it to you. you can't "convince" someone to believe in marriage, either they do or they don't and he dont..all men don't feel that way but a lot of guys do well maybe like 40 percent or something? most guys feel this way until they find the one.1