So I have a super sweet, loving boyfriend. He has to travel a lot for business. He's very attractive, but I don't really worry about him cheating on me... we have a very sturdy relationship. But he came home from a trip a few weeks ago, and one of his buddies told me that when women approach him (yeah, it happens a lot) that he is married. He even goes as far as to show them my picture and wear a ring. I think it's sweet, but I also think it kind of will take away the excitement as a couple when we finally do get engaged. I feel like he's been pretending for so long in his mind that it won't be a big deal to him anymore. Is that wrong of me? Should I just be grateful that he is turning all these other girls down? Idk... I just want our REAL engagement to be special.
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My boyfreind gave me an "I Love You ring" and I wear it on my marraige finger because I'm taken by him and when guys hit on me I say I'm engaged, just like on here. It doesn't take away from the excitement for the future it just shows me that I really do want only him, and it gets all the other guys off my back easily. When a person says they are happily married or engaged it shows that they/re in a serious relationship and don't want to play games or any of that, so its a good thing, don't worry1