about the dates you said no to or people you said no to or ignored / avoided, and just didn't want to go out with, and if so what do you think about them ?
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Well in 7th grade this kid whom I had a lot of classes with, asked one of his friends to ask me out for him while I was in lunch line. I probably said no, but I mean, I was what 13 at the time. So it just make me feel happy that I was liked back then by a guy.
In 8th grade-9th grade I had a crush on a few guys but nothing serious like the guy would ask me out or anything. I would have said no anyways because I wanted to focus on school not boys and stuff like that.
10th grade some guy that was my sister's boyfriends cousin, asked me if in another life we were together. I mean that was totally flirting, he was good looking but no.
11th grade, don't remember much but I had a crush on a guy from church or maybe 2 guys. They never really asked me out though.
1st year college, I was asked out by this white guy (I am Asian) and I said yes and then after 1 date it was like, he was hooked on me but I wasn't on him. So it was a no.
2nd year of college-4th year, some other white guy asked me to be his girlfriend and I said no. He was very determined and kept on asking me why I didn't like him. It was just that I wasn't really sure of myself or where I was going. I didn't want someone to tie me down. I left my home state a few months after I graduated college and randomly went somewhere.
1st year out of college I had a few people ask me out, and I was like, NO I am not sure I want to get married (I haven't found the one yet).
2nd year out of college I met a guy I use to know from elementary school in the new state I'm in. thought I'd give it a go since I was lonely and life didn't seem to be going anywhere at this time. I had no idea what my next step in life is (Used to be elementary, high school, college, work... now work what next?) While I dated my now husband I got asked out a lot. I guess once I was in a relationship with him I was happy and it showed. Random guys at the grocery store would flirt with me, and ask for my name and such. Then ask if I had a boyfriend, I would say "yes, sorry I'm engaged" lol0