If you had a girlfriend and you always tell her she is beautiful and how you love everything about her and have even proposed a few times, why would you deny her to your friends and family? Why would you want to marry someone who you tell people you don't even talk to anymore which is a lie? If your family are a bunch of losers and users would that be why? To protect her from their conniving ways?
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Sorry but, he is only protecting himself. The only reason a guy would do this is because he is already in a committed relationship with someone else or worse he is married. You really need to do some investigating. He is not protecting you he is protected himself and he's other life, the one you know nothing about, but what he tells you. Actions speck louder then words.