i know this girl for a month. She is a nice hearted girl. we met when she was on the verge of a breakup. we grew close to each other in a few days and we kissed too. I liked her and proposed marriage to her. She said that she cannot work this out. She is not giving reasons as to why. asks me to look for some other girl. But she is a kind of pissed off if I said that I am already looking someone else. when I ask her why is she pissed off, she replies calmly that she is not bothered if I hav a girl or not. We spend time together but she says she does not want to talk abt marriage. She says that she is afraid to spend time with me alone since she may emotionally fall for me. How do I win her? She is very strict when it comes to spending time with me though she agrees that I am very harmless. she says that I was the first one to love her so willingly but says that circumstances are not conducive to make this work. She never gives reasons as to why this wold not work but just blames the circumstances. whenver I try to ask her on this topic, she either changes the topic or gets a kind of arrogant and says that this topic is making her think against my wishes. I am in a spot of bother. I really love her a lot and want to marry her. But am not able to understand the reason behind her weird behaviour.
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Girls duirng in this condition not long after her breakup seems unpredictable, because what she feels inside her is mixed, she still hurt and her emotion not really recover from her past relationship, she still attached with it.But if she's with you on the verge of a breakup, I advise you she is in the rebound, she doesn't know what to do, she scared, she's colded, she needs someone to whole her and make her warmth but she still confused.I experienced this before.
Do not ever mentioned about commitment right now, she don't even know what she want. Just give her space and time so she can found out what wrong with her, what she really want, and you.Is she really recover from broken hearted? You can see how she treats you, she will be happy and energetic with you all the time, without worries, without that face, without too emotional.You know when people respond your love.But all these takes time,if not months, maybe years. I gone through that and it's work.You just have to be patient.0