I've been with my fiancée for almost 3 yrs. now. We've been engaged for almost 1yr. He has been married previously and has 2 kids. He wants more kids however, I feel as if he is stalling our marriage and the creation of new family. Why I think this: He has already moved our wedding date from one month to >undetermined at this timeHe is 9yrs older than me, and I feel as if he is just keeping me around. Is it time to give him the ultimatum?- Which he hates that btw… But I can’t keep living like this, not knowing if and when we are getting married, and I want to start planning on having a baby. I’m not getting any younger and I do have a great job, great insurance. I am ready?! How much longer should I wait? Or should I?... Guys?... Girls? … Thank you!
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that's why I would never be with someone like him because he already been through all that and wouldn't want to be through it all again, while I want to. I think you really need to sit down with him and talk everything through. if you guys aren't on the same page, you need to leave him, not threaten to, but actually leave because if you guys want different things in life, and those are really important things you listed, then it couldn't work out in the long run1