We dated for over 3 years and took two breaks where she needed to figure out life. In both these cases I sent a letter then she came back on her own. This time I was starting a new job and buying a house and began to pressure her about marriage. Of coarse this turnered her off and she because to pull away. I was overwhelmed and was listening to friends advise and not what I truly felt. We ran into each other 2 weeks after we broke up and I gave her a letter saying I was not myself and sorry for the way I made her feel. It's been 4 weeks since then and I called her to see how she was doing then left a quick upbeat message. I've always been patient but feel that the spark would be back if we just got coffee or takes once. Not sure where to go from here?
She broke up with me because I was pressuring her?
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If you were dating 3 years and she is that offput that you're talking about marriage ... she might not be the one for you.0
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