I really felt I was silly and idiot when I cried in front of a girl. She was the first girl in my life that really made me cry. It hurts me more when she said that I was too immature to be her husband. Ouch!
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My ex cried in front of me and it really touched me... I don't think it's unmanly, I think it's good. If anything it made me love him more, because it was raw emotion. Attractive is maybe a little strong, but it pulled me closer to him.
I wouldn't say it makes you not husband material... a man who cries is a man who cares, and a man who cares will do anything to try and keep his girl happy, even if it means giving her up. I would be more comfortable marrying a man who could cry around me - if we had children, I wouldn't be worried about him being with them. He would be sensitive to their needs, and I wouldn't be worried about his pain (whatever made him cry) being converted to anger.1