OK. I'm basically asking people's views on sex before marriage.
On the one hand I kind of get the whole 'try before you buy' kinda thing because I guess it if sucks, you're stuck with that for as long as you're married.
But, if you'd never had sex before then how would you know it was bad - if that even makes sense. You sort of wouldn't be able to compare would you?
So, answers appreciated (;
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There are two schools of thought, and you can be in one or the other, but not pick and choose.
One is that men and women are fundamentally compatible, that if you get married, you become one, you give yourself fully to your partner, and you try your best to meet their needs, while you do the same.
The other is that you only do what you like and enjoy and find someone else who likes and enjoys what you do, that you need to be compatible.
You can hold either of these views, but if your view is 'I'll find someone and then hope we're compatible', this doesn't make sense. If you wait till marriage, and then discover your husband loves anal, or has a fetish, are you going to happily and lovingly do what he wants multiple times a week? And will he do what you want in the same way? If you can both answer yes, truthfully, then you could wait.7
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