I know a lot of girls think is way as a fairytale wedding but I really do want to find a man and work while being a part time housewife too and I want to cook and like cleaning decorating the house I want to have kids be a proud mom and wife, and I'm 21 and people think I should be partying and clubbing dating but that stuff just never interested me, I really just want to wait for the right guy and want a classic basic but happy marriage. Am I a loser for thinking this way? will my expectations be shot down? is waiting worth it?
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No your not a loser for thinking this way and yes these expectations may come true for you... and if it is what you want it is 100% worth waiting for... I'm also 21 and I have always just wanted to be the perfect little housewife... I met my fiance 4 years ago... I am a trained teacher but I've decided that I wanted to give up work to be a housewife when we get married in spring... That has happened a little earlier than expected when we had a ready made family drop on our door step(my best friend died and her two kids are living with us right now) I am now a housewife and a stand in mother for those kids... I love it I rise in the morning before everyone and I have breakfast on the table for everyone... bake fresh crossiants or breakfast muffins and I prepare fruit and juice etc... then my hubby goes to work and I clean and bake and look after the children... then I prepare dinner and we all sit down to dinner like a family... then we play with the kids and bath them put them to bed... and then we snuggle up on the couch...
Ive been a teach for a few years and I always thought that that would be the most fulfilled I would feel... but my god is being a housewife and a guiding light for those kids more fulfilling than anything I've ever been... I can't wait till we can make more additions to our little family!1