My close friend just got engaged to this guy she was best friends with for a really long time and has been dating for a few months. kind of fast, I know, but she said they both felt ready to take it to that level. They're both just starting college this year, but going to different colleges. I'm afraid for her because she likes to party a lot and get drunk and she one time cheated on him while drunk. I'm afraid she'll cheat on him again and he'll break the engagement off. They want to get married after college.
So... do you think it's a smart idea to get engaged in college? Their colleges are two hours apart.
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I don't see a problem with it if they are ready. I do see a problem with long engagements. I think they are useless. What is the point? It doesn't seem like they are ready, if she wants to party & such, she needs to wait. Engagements are a commitment, she obviously isn't ready to do that.
I got married when I was in college, no, I didn't have to, wanted to. But I got all of my running around out of me first.
But hey, she's an adult, she can make he own decisions & mistakes. If it works out, great. If not, she cleans up the mess.0