We have 3 children together, my partner tells me he wasn't ready to be a daddy.He says he feels as though he has missed out on playing around and experiencing what most guys experience.
He now wants to flirt and sleep with other girls but wants to stay with me while he does it.
This makes me feel so insecure, sick and hopeless,worthless and just damn well. not good enough.
He says it doesn't have anything to do with me but then he has also told me that I have ruined his life for having these children?
I feel so hurt and sad.
I am 25 and he is 28, we live together are financially secure and look like we have the perfect family.behind closed doors it's just and all out war.
I can't take it anymore and I am scared to be alone.
Please someone give me some helpful advice.
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That guy doesn't deserve you. I mean if what you are telling is true. I mean wtf? You definitely seem to care for him from what you say. I don't see the point of sleeping around. Leave him, leave him, leave him. If he loved you he could never have said that. I mean I cannot think of saying something like that to a person who cares for me. Assuming what you are saying is true, leave him and move to court for child support. You would find a lot of guys who would really appreciate if you care for them. And that's the truth.1