OK here's my question why is it that some guys like Hugh Hefner (and several Rappers) can have 5 girlfriends and fornicate with anyone they want to; and for 50 years Hefner has treated women like TRASHY WHORES, been in movies and magazines and flaunted his lifestyle all over the world, even has a TV show Girls Next Door. _ But if a guy like me was truly in love with two women who are best friends forever and wanted to marry them and stay married to them for the rest of my days I would be considered a criminal and a polygamist and a pervert ? I don't understand this and would really like to hear the opinions of some of you ladies ?!? _ By the way please don't tell me plural marriage is wrong, nearly every great man of GOD in the Bible had many wives and was BLESSED tremendously (I'm a theology student)! Also don't tell me a man can't love more than one woman millions do; I just want mine to be legitimate and open ; and parents love more than one child in nearly every home ! WHY CAN'T I ?
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The women who are part of those "relationships" are not in love and are only there for other reasons. I find it hard to believe that those women love these men, they love the money and possible fame that comes from it. They don't have any respect for themselves, and neither do these men.
As for average men like yourself who really love two women, I don't know what to tell you. I mean, we are not conditioned to believe that we can love more than one person. We all believe that there is only one person out there for us. That's what I was brought up to believe, and that's what I do believe. I don't see anything wrong with people who are in different types of relationships, like people who can be with more than one person at at time, or more than two people who are married to each other. I'm very open-minded about a lot of things, and don't judge people on what they do. If you want to do that, and those two other women are ok with it too, I don't see anything wrong with it. I think people like to believe that there's only one way of doing things, but in reality, we are all different.
Personally, I know I wouldn't be able to do that, but I know there are people out there who may. We are just made to believe that certain things are correct and others are not. I don't know many people who believe that Hefner and the rappers are right, but the fact that they are famous I think allows them to get away with those things. I would actually rather know that there are men who are truly in love with 2 women and want to spend their lives with them and all that, then know that there are men and women who can disrespect themselves and each other. So, no, I don't think you're wrong, as long as everyone involved in your relationship(s) are happy with the situation.1
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