My boyfriend of 3 years proposed to me. I say no because I don't think I'm mature enough for marriage and we're both 19. Don't get me wrong I do love him but and 19 seems insanely young for that kind of commitment. I think might destroy him cause now he's gets mad at me for almost every little mistake I do. Was that cold hearted of me to tell him no?
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No it was not cold hearted of you.
If you feel that you ain't ready for that kind of commitment then you did the right thing.
If your boyfriend doesn't understand that it is his own huge problem.
Marriage is supposed to happen when both individuals feel that way.
When you love someone. . . After everything awesomeness you had. . . Marriage is the last thing to do . . .spend the rest of your life with each other.
Also want to point out getting married at age of 19 is bit young. . . I'd say best marriage age comes after age of 24-25+ . . . Though it can be different to all people.1