i am 34 I am very shy I have not had a lot of luck with relationship's. I am a single dad of two I have always wanted to be married and have a big family how ever I feel know that I am 34 time is running out of time and I don't want to be a seen as a failure. I am a good guy I have never lied to a women or used or cheated on a woman. I am the one that gets used lied to and cheated on. I am a honest hard working loyal guy. I know I am not the best looking or the smartest why can't I get a women to look pass that and get to know who I am. PLEASE do not suggest online dating I have been trying for 3 YEARS they have not worked.
the getting married and the BIG FAMILY means the most to me is it to late at 34
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Maybe you're too high up for descent women. Try looking for ascending ones.
But on a serious note, it's possible that being a single dad is hard on your dating life, in terms of how much time you have to spend, what your priorities are, etc. Being aware of that could help. I have no amazing new earth-shattering advice for you, but it's important to make sure you are getting out to places where you will meet women- and probably NOT with your kids. Hire a babysitter or enlist a friend, whatever you need to do. And it's okay that you're not "the best looking or the smartest"- few people can be- but make sure you are doing what you can to take care of yourself project an attractive image.
In addition, I will not say "try internet dating", but I WILL say make sure you're using it to the greatest advantage possible. Spend time on your profile and do your best to make it stand out and portray you in your best light. Of course you should be honest, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't choose photos you look your best in etc. Make sure you've used correct grammar and spelling, and edited your biography to make sure it flows well and sounds good. Also, don't be vague. A million guys like sports, TV shows, and the outdoors. Be more specific- which sports and TV shows, and what do you like about them? What do you like doing outdoors? Really think about what makes you you.
Also, SHOW DON'T TELL. I think that's a big one when it comes to online dating profiles. "I'm funny, optimistic, and a nice guy" does NOTHING. Instead, demonstrate that you have those qualities by sharing anecdotes and accomplishments.