I'm a woman in my 20s that has no interest in ever getting married. Are there other women out there that would rather be selfish with their life, than spend it being Suzy Homemaker? No offense to married women; I'm just too restless and get bored too easily to sign my life away to one person and place.
- Can't wait to walk down the aisle!Vote A
- If it happens, it happens.Vote B
- Ugh. Do you need my ankle size to fit me with a ball and chain?Vote C
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Are you not interested in monogamy or are you concerned that marriage will become a bore? Or are you another woman who lost hope and doesn't believe that romantic love still exists? Do you believe that chivalry is dead? Or does chivalry not tickle your fancy anyway?
Anyway if you do get married that does not mean you are by any means obligated to be "Suzy Homemaker." There are some men out there who want their wives to live that role, but not every man thinks that way. I say it is possible for you to really find your Mr. Irresistible, and he is out there. Men do exist who appreciate a woman's good company, who want to have interesting conversations with his special girl, and who won't seem boring at all when around their one girl who is just for him.
Marriage and monogamy do not have to be boring. It is unfortunate for so many couples that their marriages do become stagnant, but that is their fault completely. A man and a woman can maintain their charm and spark in their lives, but they have to work on it. A charming and happy marriage can be possible, but it takes a team effort.
I have to say that the reason why marriages get dull is because the couples get lazy. It totally happened to my parents, and I do not want to become them. My parents don't do anything interesting, they do not read or learn about interesting things, they don't visit interesting places, they both have a limited sense of humor and a limited vocabulary, they are not cultured, and they think very simply. They deliberately live a simple life that has no stimulation to the brain. They actually don't like watching movies where you have to think and concentrate while watching it. Concentration and thinking is something they like to keep to a minimum. All of these characteristics combined make them incredibly boring people. And it is their own fault. They tend to think that their lives are good but it's too dull for my tastes. The point is that marriages become boring because the man and woman become boring.
You can find an interesting guy for you who you will never get bored talking to and who you will never want to leave, but you have to know what to look for in him. Good luck. There is a really cool, charming, and irresistible man out there also looking just for you.3
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